What does Jesus actually mean when He says to us “deny yourself”? For many Christians, that phrase can quietly become something much harsher: My needs don’t matter. Wanting to flourish is selfish. Taking care of myself is ungodly. Everyone else should always come first.
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Timestamps:
00:00 — The Fear That Following God Means Less
02:29 — “Jesus, Others, Yourself”
03:40 — What If We’ve Misunderstood “Deny Yourself”?
05:09 — Flourishing in the Middle of Suffering
07:05 — Is Self-Interest Always Selfish?
08:25 — Are Christians Supposed to Be Miserable?
09:15 — Learning to Pay Attention to Your Needs
10:23 — When Self-Denial Actually Feeds the Ego
11:14 — What Is the Self Worth Dying To?
13:14 — Rethinking “Take Up Your Cross”
15:11 — Denying Ego vs. Denying Humanity
16:33 — Why Receiving Care Can Feel Selfish
18:09 — What Happens When You Become Your Own Solution
19:56 — Self-Care vs. Escape
21:05 — When the Heart Finds Somewhere Else to Feel Alive
22:25 — Jeff’s Golf Story: What Actually Replenishes You?
24:32 — What Healthy Self-Care Looks Like
25:01 — Jesus, Peter, and the Vulnerability of Being Served
27:10 — Denying Yourself Doesn’t Mean Denying Your Humanity
